Seeing someone trying too hard to carry off an affectation can be rather offputting.

But when we notice a quirky little habit that someone has unintentionally adopted, it can leave us with a warm fuzzy feeling towards that person.

Recently, someone online asked people to share “What minor things are very attractive on women, but they never seem to realize it?” Respondents came forward with the cute little mannerisms that appealed to them the most and we’ve shared a list of the most common things that drive men crazy, in the gallery below. 

1 Not having cosmetic surgery. Serious girl your lips are perfectly kissable without any lip filler.

2 Humility. I hope it’s attractive on men, too. I can’t abide braggarts, and the whole “boss babe” and “alpha male” bt needs to die.

3 Messy buns & up-do’s. ? Women just be tossing that hair up in about three tenths of a second to get it out of their way… meanwhile I’m sitting there with my jaw on the floor. ?.

4 Idk what it is but I love a woman’s neck line, clavicles, and shoulders. I think that’s where a women’s femininity really shines. Audrey Hepburne is a great example. My ex used to wear this shoulderless sweater and it would drive me crazy.

5 Braided hair.

6 A sense of humor/willingness to be silly.

7 Kindness.

8 Honestly just casual women, not all dolled up. I think sweat pants and an old T-shirt with hair tied up in a messy pony tail looks more attractive than fancy dress, makeup and perfect everything. Still look beautiful dressed up, but I think the messy look shows they’re confident in themselves and don’t care what others think at that time.

9 High Ponytail.

10 Legitimately hilarious sense of humor.

11 A combination of self confidence and genuine kindness is very attractive to me. It’s also more rare than you think.

12 Mental maturity.

13 Pale skin. I f*g hate fake tan with a passion. Love the ancestry you are a part of. If you are Irish love the fact that you are Irish. Pale skin is gorgeous.

14 Practicing what they preach, being accountable for their actions, and a lot of the stuff that they tell men is attractive like that.

15 Freckles.

16 Being extremely passionate about their hobbies. .

17 Just being so comfortable in their body. when they look like it’s so natural to be relaxed without trying to flirt or worry about their appearance. smiling for no reason. a posture that is welcoming, inviting.

18 Baseball cap with the ponytail pulled out the back. Men’s dress shirt and pajama bottoms in the morning.

A tiny wisp of hair it comes out near the ear that seems a little bit messy, but just fits perfectly on your face. And lastly, the small gap between the end of your skirt and the top of your boots. That’s small amount of skin that doesn’t really, have a traditional sexy value just look so damn good on you.

19 When they do that little half-smile while lost in thought or when they unconsciously tuck a strand of hair behind their ear — pure magic

20 Hygiene. My wife uses this body spray after she gets out the shower and every time I smell it it’s like the first time. Nails manicured not overly long but she’s leaning into a more pointed tip because you know…I like it

21 Not sure about all women but my wife has so many that I daydream at work about coming home and seeing her cute little mannerisms over some silly thing.

22 Them genuinely having fun and making derpy faces that makes for ugly photos. Women, that is the face we fall in love with, not your highly edited instagram photos that took at least 50 tries to get right.

23 I have to throw wearing glasses out there…? I get 3X the male attention when I wear my glasses vs my contacts.

24 Wrinkles are sexy for me especially a bit of crow’s feet around the eyes.

25 Purse straps that go between their breasts.